Menu

NORTH JERSEY · NEW YORK CITY · LONG ISLAND · HUDSON VALLEY

What Kind of Wedding Photography is Right For You?

It’s no small feat trying to navigate through an ocean of wedding photography and wedding photographers in NYC and the North Jersey area. I mean, what the heck is “light & airy”, and why do some of us (both photographers and engaged couples alike) gravitate towards certain photography styles and not others? 

For many of us, wedding photography marketplace is like the topping station at our favorite fro-yo place: we know what we like, and we know what we definitely don’t like. But what about that curious rainbow sprinkled, chocolate-covered gummy bear in the corner? It sounds/looks incredible – but then again, you’re not sure if you want to sacrifice 1/3 of your topping limit on something you don’t quite understand either. 

But it looks irresistible, doesn’t it?

The best thing about wedding photography (or frozen yogurt toppings, for that matter) is that you can have anything you want, any way that you want, all with a proverbial cherry on top. So to help you with your search for the perfect wedding photographer, I’ve compiled a list of some terms you’ll probably want to familiarize yourself with.


“Light & Airy” vs “Dark & Moody”

The best thing about wedding photography (or frozen yogurt toppings, for that matter) is that you can have anything you want, any way that you want, all with a proverbial cherry on top. So to help you with your search for the perfect wedding photographer, I’ve compiled a list of some terms you’ll probably want to familiarize yourself with.

“Light & Airy”

  • Will generally feature lots of greens, florals, pastels and brighter whites
  • Will generally feature more portraits and wedding details
  • Will generally feature generous amount of bokeh (hence, the “airy” part)…and tons of it.
  • Images are typically achieved with natural/available light
“Dark & Moody”
  • Will generally feature more shadows, deeper blacks, and an overall darker tone
  • Much of the image is typically in focus.
  • Images may involve hard sunlight or use of artificial lights

While wedding photographers can/will switch between the two genres of wedding photography throughout the course of their career, they will generally gravitate towards one style over the other. Again – there’s no right or wrong approach. If your photographer does shoot both styles however, this might be a great opportunity to let them know what you love most about their photos, and see if they can shoot more of that on your wedding day.


“Traditional” vs “Conceptual”

Traditional wedding photographs include all the photos you’ll find in many photographers’ portfolios, with some photographers executing them better than others. While shooting with this traditional approach, your photographer is doing whatever is known to work, in order to achieve a final product that is pretty much consistent with whatever they’ve done in the past. Conceptual wedding photographs will include all the photos you won’t find anywhere else. This photographer is likely trying new/unfamiliar/different things in order to achieve a final product that isn’t always guaranteed. The only thing guaranteed is that when it works, it will be one-of-a-kind, and won’t be easily reproduced by others. Here’s how you ‘em apart:

“Traditional”

  • The couples are generally configured in a “prom pose”, or dipping in front of something/anything
  • Whole faces, bodies and limbs are typically visible in the photo
  • Can be found in most wedding portfolios
  • Can be found in any major wedding publication (Martha Stewart, Harpers Bazaar, The Knot)
  • Grandma’s going to love the photos

“Conceptual”

  • The couples are generally moving, or posed/directed in an unconventional way
  • Body parts are intentionally cut off, either via cropping or lighting choice
  • Unconventional location choices (parking garages, alleyways, etc)
  • Unconventional lighting choices (colorful/artificial lights)
  • Can be found in any major wedding photography industry groups (Fearless, ISPWP, WPPI, MyWed, Rangefinder)
  • These images may not be grandma’s cup of tea

Just like the “Light & Airy” vs “Dark & Moody” comparison above, your photographer probably shoots a little bit of both styles – but will probably gravitate towards one style of shooting more than the other. A deep look into their portfolio will probably shed some light (pun intended) into what they love shooting most!


“Editorial” vs “Moment-Driven”

One portfolio focuses on how everything looks, with everything precisely directed, posed, and curated to perfection. The other portfolio focuses on how everything feels, and oftentimes showcases the facial and body expressions of everyone in attendance (from the kids playing in the water fountain, to grandma watching intently during the ceremony). The best way to gauge what kind of photographer you’ve got, is to take a dive into their portfolio and blog posts. What do you see most in their portfolio?

David's Country Inn in Hackettstown, NJ December wedding celebrating Leanne and John. Both Leanne and John got ready onsite at David's Country Inn. Leanne decided to do a first look with her father than bride and groom went outside for their first look around 3pm. Even though it was December we had enough daylight for all our outdoor photos at David's Country Inn. Leanne and John then had their wedding ceremony indoors at David's Country Inn followed by cocktail, then reception. David's Country Inn Hackettstown NJ wedding with Leanne and John documented by Steve from Pearl Paper Studio. Pearl Paper Studio is here to capture real emotions, fun couples with non-traditional wedding stories, now we are booking small intimate backyard wedding, outdoor tent wedding, farm wedding, elopements, nyc elopements. We are currently booking fall 2022 and 2023 weddings in NJ, NY, Brooklyn and Long Island.

“Editorial”

  • Lots of formal portraits of the couple
  • Lots of detail shots (flat-lays arrangements of jewelry and invitations, reception centerpieces, etc)
  • You’ll generally find these types of images featured in wedding blogs & publications (Martha Stewart, Harpers Bazaar, The Knot)
  • Photographer will be providing posing direction
Mr and Mrs Faulkenberry! Mary Grace Hager and Stephen Faulkenberry are married. Mary Grace and Stephen's wedding at David's Country Inn NJ kicks off our 2023 wedding season. Mary Grace and Stephen's David's Country Inn wedding on January 12, 2023 officially kicked off our 2023 wedding season. Mary Grace and Stephen sweet wedding ceremony was held at Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary in Hackettstown NJ, Mary Grace and Stephen took all their family formal photos at Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary then arrived at David's Country Inn since it was winter wedding we did loose some light but got some awesome wedding portraits done in front of David's Country Inn with Ivy wall. Mary Grace and Stephen stepped inside for their cocktail hour immediately followed by wedding reception. Mary Grace and Stephen's David's Country Inn NJ Wedding documented by MJ from Pearl Paper Studio. Pearl Paper Studio is here to capture real emotions, fun couples with non-traditional wedding stories, now we are booking small intimate backyard wedding, outdoor tent wedding, farm wedding, elopements, nyc elopements. We are currently booking fall 2022 and 2023 weddings in NJ, NY, Brooklyn and Long Island.

“Moment-Driven”

  • Lots of candids of the couple, as well as guests
  • Not too many detail shots, if any at all
  • Because these images generally take on a photo-documentary approach, you won’t find these images anywhere else.
  • Photographer will provide little direction, if any at all

At the risk of sounding like I’m beating a dead horse, I’m going to tell you that your photographer probably shoots a little of both here too. But as you go through his/her portfolio, you’re going to notice a pattern in the type of images your photographer is showing most. The reason why this is important to note is because if your photographer enjoys shooting/showing it – your photographer is probably pretty decent at it.

At the end of the day, we all simply want to hire someone who’s good at what they do, amirght? 

And there you have it! Hopefully with a better understanding of these wedding photography terms, you’re well on your way to finding the best photographer in the universe, one who’ll help you capture everything/everyone important to you on your special day. Again, there’s no right or wrong way to go about all of this. I mean, like I said before: some people like gummy bears on their frozen yogurt, while others like chocolate chips. Only you know what you like. So go out there and get it. No judgment – I promise :).

Serving New Jersey, New York, Washington DC and Destinations Worldwide